With summer behind us, so is the busy season of weddings and anniversary celebrations. Nothing makes a couple take stock in their own relationship more than attending a fabulous affair, full of well thought out details, neatly orchestrated and full of fun and excitement. If the honeymoon has passed in your relationship and you are wondering if you and your partner have what it takes to succeed, perhaps it’s time to consider tapping into a specialist who can provide neutral marriage counseling to help clarify these feelings.
If you’ve decided that you’d like to take this step, the next move is to approach your spouse with the idea of marriage therapy. It is not imperative that both members of the relationship be completely on board with the idea, but it is important to be aware and in agreement that if either feels that they are ready for counseling, then the other is supportive. It is especially important that this happens prior to the relationship deteriorating, so timing is everything. If you feel that you are ready to explore marriage therapy, don’t wait, and begin the conversation now – this very step could be the beginning of more open and meaningful communication.
Once you’ve determined that you are interested in meeting with a counselor, it is helpful to consider the following when making a selection:
Deciding to explore marriage therapy is a difficult decision and making that choice is a very big step. If at any time in the process you are interested in learning more about your legal rights, it is never a bad idea to consult with a lawyer, experienced in the area of mediation. Contact us to discuss the specifics of your situation confidentially.